Darien | 21 | NYC | Sociology/Women's Studies

"You will learn quickly, never fear."

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You know. I’m hurt, obviously, but I’m mostly just disappointed. The person I trusted the most treated me in a way I never thought they would and it took a few strikes to realize it. Do this affect my trust in people in the future? Probably not. If anything this experience just helps me detect the same situation earlier if it occurs again. It’s an opportunity to learn.

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smackledorfed:

philosophicalnerd:

elfauno:

Finally, some good advice from Cosmo


Your girlfriend has gained a bunch of weight and feels insecure? What should you do?-Write her a break-up note on a Twinkie.See how ridiculous this bullshit is? If you are unwilling to help your partner deal with insecurities, then you are the problem.

Why the fuck is this garbage in my notes…. A girl being insecure about her weight has far different social implications than a man being insecure about his small income vs his girlfriends bigger income, shame on you for making such a horrendous false equivalent logical fallacy. As a fat girl, how dare you compare the two. One is based off of routine, systematic sexist societal oppression, and the other is based off of a sense of entitlement due to male privilege. How that fuck could you even write that pile of horseshit and post it on the internet for all to see? Shame. On. You.

smackledorfed:

philosophicalnerd:

elfauno:

Finally, some good advice from Cosmo

Your girlfriend has gained a bunch of weight and feels insecure? What should you do?

-Write her a break-up note on a Twinkie.

See how ridiculous this bullshit is? If you are unwilling to help your partner deal with insecurities, then you are the problem.

Why the fuck is this garbage in my notes…. A girl being insecure about her weight has far different social implications than a man being insecure about his small income vs his girlfriends bigger income, shame on you for making such a horrendous false equivalent logical fallacy.
As a fat girl, how dare you compare the two. One is based off of routine, systematic sexist societal oppression, and the other is based off of a sense of entitlement due to male privilege. How that fuck could you even write that pile of horseshit and post it on the internet for all to see? Shame. On. You.